Thursday, October 22, 2009

Singapore man kills child over cigarettes


AFP - Tuesday, October 20

A Singaporean man has gone on trial charged with murdering his 23-month-old daughter in a fit of rage after he caught her playing with his cigarettes, court officials said Tuesday.

Sallehan Allaudin, 26, is accused of fatally beating his daughter Nikie in January ahead of her second birthday, causing her to die of a ruptured vein. If convicted, he could face death by hanging.

The High Court was told Monday that Sallehan, who had just returned home with his wife with a present for Nikie, went berserk after seeing the toddler had torn up and scattered his cigarettes, the Straits Times reported Tuesday.

Sallehan has pleaded not guilty to the charge.

His wife, Rozanah Mohamed Yusoff, 24, used a mannequin to show the court how Sallehan allegedly kicked and stomped on their daughter in the kitchen, the newspaper said.

The couple, who have two younger daughters, called for an ambulance when Nikie started bleeding from the nose, but she died of her injuries, according to the report.

"I did not go into the kitchen to stop my husband as I thought that was the way he wanted to discipline Nikie," the wife was quoted as saying by the newspaper.

He must have love little Nikie enough to buy a gift for her. Yet why did such things have to happen? Parents all need a little anger management at times, no matter how patient we have always been.

Monday, October 19, 2009

Daddy's Girl


Charis is looking more & more like Daddy each day! She put on some weight on her face, which made her looks even more like Daddy. & she's also losing that "soft feminine" looks. Somehow she's more boyish looking now...



I love to watch Daddy & Charis bonding together. It bring an indescribable warmth to my heart!

Both of us tired out after a day of outing. Look at the pile of clothes besides us! Charis has lots of laundry everyday!

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Regrets


Mummy Gina: I decided to write this blog from my own perspective in future because we find that writing from Charis perspective is too limited & probably not "fair" to her too.

I'm not someone who have much regrets in life as I prefer to look forward in life, but recently I do have some regrets. James' grandmother passed away last Monday, & there were some regrets.

1. I regret that I didn't visited her enough while she was around.
I didn't visit her this year as I was often sick during my pregnancy. The fondest memory I have of her is when I visited her at her house 2 years ago & she chatted so much with me. Even though I couldn't understand her dialect language very well, we both enjoyed each other's presence.

2. I regret that I never brought Charis to visit her.
She's staying at an old folk's home as she's bedridden & there's no one to take care of her at her house. As Charis is just a newborn, we try to avoid bringing her to the home as newborn tend to be more susceptible to viruses & bacteria. Hence, she has never seen her great grand-daughter before, & Charis has never & will never meet her great grand-mother. How many people has the good fortune in life to have a great grand-daughter? Yet sadly, they have never met.

My mom is now 70 years old. How many more years can she still spend with Charis? She has been through so much to bring me up. One of the ways I can repay her is to bring Charis every sunday to visit her. She enjoys those visits & I treasure them too.

If someone that you know is no longer around tomorrow, will you have any regrets? If your parents or grandparents are around, don't let them miss out the best opportunity for your children to know them personally. Today is a gift from God, so treasure it well. Time is never on our side, but we can choose to live the best out of it.

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Home Sweet Home


Finally I'm back home! Great Grandma passed away on Monday, & Daddy & Mummy have to be at the wake, so they can't take care of me. I'll have to stay at Da Yi's house until the funeral is over. I missed them & my bed so much, so I'm very happy I can finally be home. Yea! :)

Auntie Lily & Auntie Stella told Mummy to place me sleeping on my tummy so that my colic would be better, but Mummy got no confidence on placing me tummy down onto the bed, so she placed me tummy down lying on her tummy instead. I love that posture as I can feel Mummy's heartbeat, gives me a sense of security :)

Daddy is now confident of bathing me without me crying anymore. I enjoy bathing whenever I'm being flipped over on my front. This way, I can waddle my feet in the water & I also feel more secure.

Daddy told Mummy to buy a new toy for me to "make up" to me for not able to spend time with me the last few days. She bought a rattle that Daddy thinks it is so cute, but it costs $14.95 for such a mini toy like this. She wonders why baby's toys are so expensive...

She also bought me 2 headbands. After she bought them, she happened to see a picture of a baby wearing the same headband she bought for me when she was surfing online. The baby has a matching top too! Maybe Mummy can find me one too?

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

I Want My Milk! Now!


Whenever I'm late for feeding, Daddy & Mummy has to bear with the consequences...

Saturday, October 3, 2009

Losing Weight...


Ever since I have been sick, I have lost weight especially on my cheeks. I have lost my "hamster cheeks", and my face seems sharper as well.


Just 6 days earlier vs today

Remember Mummy says she need to buy me a new bed soon? This is the reason why...


Original sleeping position vs after turning 90 degree

I can turn 90 degree in my sleep! Mummy is puzzled why I can turn & toss so much while i'm sleeping when she doesn't have this habit at all. She is also worried that I may knock my head against the cot's ledge while sleeping... Even when I'm not sleeping in my own cot, but on her bed, I also tend to shift myself so close to her that she's worried one of these days, she may just hit me with her arms while she's in deep sleep.

Friday, October 2, 2009

4th visit to Dr Vanessa


I'd been wailing since Monday night for at least 3 hours nightly. I couldn't help myself from wailing because I'm feeling so uncomfortable :'( On Wednesday afternoon when I knew I made Mummy cried by my wailings, I know I must get better so that Mummy will feel better too. Dr Vanessa says I have colic again & I need to take that awful medicine again :'( This time, I took my medicine obediently instead of spitting them out again. After that, I felt better & everyone is happy too.
I slept with Mummy in her bed yesterday. I kept kicking my legs & shifting my body close to her so that I can snuggle right next to her. Mummy is impressed & Daddy don't believe her when she told him I can do that. So he carried me away from Mummy to the other end of the bed, & again, I draw myself close to Mummy by repeating the actions again. Mummy says I have learnt to be smarter each day. Of course right?! Haha!